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Dancing in Clubs
After
you've had some lessons, you'll have enough confidence to venture back
into the clubs. Not only is it a blast to go out dancing, but it can
also help reinforce those things you learned in class. Nothing is like
some real world practice. It also helps you get used to the music in
the clubs, which by large is faster than what you find in your Salsa
class. Dance with as many people as you possibly can. Even if you have
a partner, don't only dance with them. It pays to learn to lead and
follow a variety of people. You will learn FASTER! That being said,
watch what style other people are doing first before asking them to
dance. Try to dance with people who have the same style with you if
you're a beginner. Just make sure not to practice on the edges of the
floor, take huge steps, bump into everyone around you, and throw your
arms, elbows, knees, and heads into people near you. That would be bad!
Dance Floor Etiquettes
- Men, when asking a lady to dance, do it politely.
When finished, say "Thank you" even if the dance was "bad".
Never take being turned down to dance personally. There are SO many
dancers in this world, and not everyone wants to dance with everyone
else. Just move on to the next person. You can even add a "Thanks
anyway".
- Ladies, when you don't want to dance with a guy,
a simple "No" is NEVER the correct response to being asked
to dance! While it is perfectly acceptable to turn down a dance with
anybody you don't want to dance with, it is never acceptable to do
it rudely. Generally, add a thank you, and even an "excuse"
to your "No". Say it with a smile. Don't say "No thank
you. Maybe later", unless you mean it!
- Be aware of the people around you and actively
avoid hitting them! This is much easier being said than done. Avoid
throwing your partner into people as a means of clearing space for
yourself. If you're dancing in a crowded place, don't take large steps;
keep your steps smaller (this will help with the faster music anyway).
- If you knock into somebody, or step on somebody,
acknowledge your mistake. Say you're sorry! Even a friendly nod is
better than nothing! If they are busy dancing, and they ignore you,
it's o.k. to go up afterwards and just say you're sorry.
- Men: protect your partner. Her safety is in your
hands, and only your hands. Whether she is a beginner, or a truly
advanced dancer, you are the leader (at least in most cases). Remember
the simple truth, followers are following your lead. If an accident
happens it's always the leader's fault (whether it IS or not). Leaders
need to be vigilant in preventing dance accidents before they happen.
Stay sharp!
- Ladies: protect your partner. Keep your steps small,
and keep them tight. In fact, most advanced dancers dance incredibly
tightly, and very controlled. One more thing, if your dance partner
has trouble with the steps or the beats, it would be nice of you to
guide him through the dance. Try to be patient. Salsa is not an easy
dance to learn!
- Finally, keep smiling! It will help you relax
and dance better. Your dance partner will feel the same way too!
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